Posts Tagged ‘rational thinking’

Trump “Haters” Unite! #1

April 17, 2020

Trump “Haters” Unite! #1

The following video is about Trump’s weak, late and tragic response to the Coronavirus.

The following video is proof positive!

Please enjoy this one, on me!

https://pjmedia.com/trending/the-top-10-lies-about-president-trumps-response-to-the-coronavirus/

A concluding thought for you…look closely:

For a change, why don’t you all unite in a massive, earth-shaking, plume of rational thinking? 

V. Thomas Mawhinney, 4/17/20

Let’s Stop Making Our Own Misery

December 26, 2010

Let’s Stop Making Our Own Misery

Albert Ellis has written about how we make ourselves anxious and depressed by embracing certain irrational ideas or beliefs. He is correct! You and I both know from experience that it is not so much what happened to a person that makes them miserable..it is how they choose to think about what happened to them.

I once sat with a friend who was dying of cancer. I dreaded visiting him simply because I feel more skilled at talking about coping with life and less so about coping with death. My dear wife, who is a nurse, is so much better at that than I am. It was comforting that she was with me that day.

To our surprise, our bed-side visit with our friend was another valuable lesson in life. Our friend welcomed us with a great smile and, after our initial greetings, he said: “Let me put this in perspective”!

He then cheerfully summarized the many wonderful things that he had the good fortune to enjoy in his life: His marriage, his children (now grown), his grandchildren, his good friends, pleasant hobbies, his pleasures and good fortunes in work, and his faith in God.

All of this from a man who we knew had suffered some significant defeats, hardships, losses and embarrassments in his life. In short, he had many of the problems in his life that a lot of people would describe as failures and great disappointments.

But not my friend. He chose to focus on the good things. The good things were as real and they were much more enduring than the bad things. By focusing upon the good things he became an inspiration to everyone who knew him. He beamed a glorious comfort for all of us to aspire to imitate.

He was thinking rationally about his own death. It was not a horrible or terrible thing! He could choose to be miserable in his last days, or he could strive to find some happiness and do some good for others. His thinking was positive in nature and he focused upon his own intended goals. His thinking was as follows:

Everyone dies. I am going earlier than I wished, but 68 years is a long time. There is much that I have accomplished. I will celebrate the good things. I will not dwell upon the bad things that I cannot change. My last gift to everyone I love (including myself) will be my love of them and my cheerful encouragement of them to carry on, make good contributions, be happy and enjoy their lives!

If my dying friend could do this through the power of rational thinking, it is certain that we can do better with our common problems in life— that we must find ways to manage and overcome.

V. Thomas Mawhinney, Ph.D.  12/26/10


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